Ep. 25 FIRE FRIDAY "You are WORTHY, Real Talk, Change is Hard, Growth"

Today I am dropping a FIRE FRIDAY EPISODE! These are freestyle episodes where I am sharing things I have learned through the week and topics that have been on my mind! Today we are are a having a real conversation as I share my recent experience with growth. This episode is meant to remind you that YOU ARE WORTHY of living you best life and you don't have to struggle. I hope this episode helps someone today with this reminder and inspires you to chase what you want in life!


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Transcript

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Hey y'all. Welcome to the Motivation Bay podcast. I am your host Hills the Motivation babe. And I am on a mission to empower you and thousands of women every single day. I think of the Motivation Babe podcast as your go-to resource for mindset talks that give you the confidence to become the best version of yourself. I am so honored you are here. Get ready to level up as we dive in. Hello. Hello. Welcome back to another episode of the Pod. It's me, It's girl. It tells I am your motivation, babe. I am your motivational besty. I'm your biggest cheerleader, and I want to see you when today I want to talk about something that I personally experienced the past. Man, you know what? I think this is just a season of life the past few months, and I pride myself in being authentic with you and sharing my story with you and the things I've gone through to help, you know, just awareness. And if I've learned anything, I know I can help you too. I wanna talk about if you are going through a season of growth that is hard, and this is a different take on, I think what we commonly hear, a season of growth is amazing and it's like things are happening and yes, yes, yes, all those things. But also, can we talk about how change is hard and change, changing our minds and pivoting and making decisions and choices that we have never done before is so hard.<laugh>. That's what I wanna talk about today, guys. So, um, that's what we're gonna dive into. This is a Fire Friday episode. They are unscripted, they are real, they're raw, they're happening real time. And I'm talking to you, what's top of mind for me this week? This week I am airing this on May 13th. Woo, Y'all, I want you to reflect right now on the season of life that you are in, okay? And think about your seasons as fall, winter, spring, and summer, okay? Just the way the seasons happen in real life in the winter, we are hibernating, right? Um, and we're like, I think of like, we, we've planted the seeds, like we have these ideas, we've planted them, we need to sit on them. Um, we're hibernating. We're taking time for our families and, and whatnot. Um, in spring, if things are blooming, you're seeing the fruits of your labor happening, you're like, whoa. You know, like things are getting real in summer. It's just so much fun. You are feeling at your best. There's so much alignment in your life, in your relationships, in your business, um, and things are just going your way. And then we come to fall when things start to slow down. And y'all, this is, hello, we need to talk about this really quick. This is a very important reminder for life. We, I know because of social and maybe some of the, you know, the things out there, we think summer is the way it has to be. 24 7. No, no, no, no. Okay, let's talk about that really quick. We have seasons of our lives. We have seasons of our days. And to be in a summer when everything is just so aligned nonstop is just an unrealistic expectation of the human experience that we encounter. Okay? We need to know the hard to know, the easy, we need to know the good, to know the bad, right? And all of these, they work hand in hand, like the ying and yang type of thing. Okay? So now that we know our seasons fall, winter, summer, spring, I want you to pause and reflect and what season are you in. And I want you to be comfortable with that and embrace that. And I want to share with you my season and some of the experiences I've had as I am truly encountering spring. And oddly enough, it is spring as this is being recorded when there's so much change. And there is think, think about spring, like the flowers are blue, mean like the fruits of your labor are finally happening. And sometimes, and maybe this has happened to you, when things start happening, when the fruits of your labor start to come to fruition like this, almost unworthiness is attached to it. And it's like, I wanted this, but am I ready for this? And like, Oh my gosh, I wanted this, but is this the thing that I wanted? After all? I don't know if that makes sense. And then this form, and we've talked about this on the podcast before, self sabotage sets in. And this is what I've been going through. And I want you to know, if you are in a season of spring and you've asked for, you've manifested, you've wrote down the life that you desire, and it's finally coming your way. And it's hard to accept that and truly take accountability. It's okay,<laugh>. That's what I tell myself every day. It's okay, you know, but embrace it. I want you to know, and I'm telling myself this, and I'm gonna not get emotional. You deserve, you deserve the life that you dream of. You deserve to continue to grow and to evolve. You deserve nothing but the best for yourself. And it's okay to let go of everything that was, and the hardships you faced and the challenges and the struggle. It's okay to let go of that so you can experience the life that you are worthy of. Oh my gosh, literally going through this right now. It's so funny how we choose to embrace the struggle and the challenge and the unalign because it feels so normal. And that's not normal. We are not here to, to be stressed and anxiety ridden. And, and just like every day is just so hard. It's no, it's not what this is for. This life is meant for you to live the most beautiful life possible, but we choose to stay in the discomfort. And I'm ha I'm telling you, I'm telling me today, you don't have to choose that any longer. If you are in your summer season, if you are in your spring season when things are happening, embrace it. Run after it, chase it with all that you have. Because the last thing I want to happen is you miss the opportunities and the doors that are opening for you. Don't miss your opportunity. Take the forward movement, the forward action in the direction of your dreams and of your goals. This like felt like the best release ever. This is what I needed to tell myself. And I know, you know, my goal here on the podcast, if I could just reach one person in each episode, like my mission is complete, Like that's my goal in life. I just wanna connect with you and be real with you. And as I encounter all these things, I know I'm not alone, and I know you're out there, and I know this can help you and serve you. So whatever season you are in, I want you to embrace it. I wanted to share a little bit about what I'm going through, and I promise I'm going to share more as things begin to unfold. But just know, just know for me, I am ready to step into the next version of me. I am constantly evolving, I am constantly growing, and I am ready for more in whatever way that looks like, be open to the possibility of everything happening in your favor because you are so worthy of that. All right, guys, that's gonna wrap it up. That was a really short fire Friday. I did not need to get emotional there, but I knew I had to click record and I knew I had to record this. Screenshot this and tag this. If this message resonated with, y'all, know, you can find me at the Motivation Bay underscore on Instagram. Tag the podcast, The Motivation Bay podcast as well. And let's connect in the dms. I I wanna hear what you have to say about this. I really wanna connect with you if you're here, um, because I feel useless. I got yous. All right, guys, until next week, we'll talk soon. Bye.